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Your Authentic Vibe

True beauty is undoubtedly revealed the moment you decide to be yourself. 

Unless you are truly comfortable with who you are, you will never be satisfied with what you wear or how you look. It will either be not enough or pointless. Self-discovery is the greatest gift we can offer ourselves and everyone around us. Authentically knowing ourselves allows us to truly understand what vibes and doesn’t with our spirit. As we reveal our true self, we naturally become more radiant, soulful, fun, happy & loving people. These are the vibes our souls love to feel, and this is the energy the world loves to see us in. This energy is captivating, intriguing, successful, joyful, and uplifting. It doesn’t worry about another’s opinion of them because its awareness of self is so strong that it safely holds space for another person to fully be and express who they are without any judgement or fear. 

Now this isn’t to say that life is all rainbows and butterflies. Feeling and moving through all of the humanness of life is very real and can be raw, but our authentic essence is always there, waiting to step forward and help heal us. Take the time, figure out what aligns with you and doesn’t, and honour both.

Healing can be messy. I promise you will only emerge a greater version of yourself if you give yourself the grace and the space to learn the lessons. Take accountability for where you’ve been and where you’re at. 

Feel what you need to feel and keep moving. If you’ve done all the work, given it your heart, and it didn’t go as hoped, be thankful. Rejection is divine protection. Be open to the possibilities that remain. Remember, you can always choose another experience or another thought.

Let’s heal our hearts and be intentional with the clothes we put on our bodies. Let’s wear the clothes that make us want to double-take in the mirror at ourselves.  More importantly, let’s heal the parts of ourselves that make us not want to look in the mirror at all. And finally, let’s get excited about the possibilities of living in our authentic truths. 

At the end of the day, we all want to feel loved and accepted. When you genuinely love and accept yourself unconditionally, I promise everything else will fall into place. The key to self-love is radical self-acceptance. Accept all that is and love yourself unconditionally.

Fashion isn’t expensive unless it’s costing you your self-worth. You don’t have own the most expensive labels to be stylish. It’s about how you embody the clothes that you wear. It’s the confidence, the personality. It’s the energy you bring to the clothes that makes them appealing. It’s not the shirt making the impression; it’s you. Why are you letting your clothes make the first impression? Why are you waiting for the world to love you first? 

Self-criticism and self-doubt won’t leave you all at once, but you will become less attached to it with time. You will identify less with it. With time you will notice the language, thank it for trying to protect you, then lovingly let it go. Eventually, it will make you laugh and wonder how it ever had such a grip on you. The words may try to creep in, but the love you recognize within yourself will shine brighter. The love you have for yourself will feel like home. The love you carry within yourself will quickly remind you of all you are and are meant to be. 

It becomes easier with time: the hurt will hurt less, and you will love yourself even more because you realize you saved yourself. You realize it was always within you. You realize that you’re worthy. You realize you are beloved.

Through getting to know one another’s authentic truth, we find the courage and inspiration to step fully into our own. Let’s use fashion to express who we are and be radically honest about it along the way.

Friend, we will find your personal style through absolute self-love and awareness. 

I’m not here to tell you how to dress. I’m here to offer guidance and inspiration so you begin to lean into the truth of who you are and dress from there. Live from there. 

Discover your authentic truth and wear it. 

It’s all energy. 

Published: January 11, 2023

Kylee Jacobsen-Nadji
Kylee Jacobsen-Nadji

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  1. 01/19/2023 / 8:54 pm

    “True beauty is revealed the moment you decide to be yourself” LOVE IT! Our Divine vibration is our true beauty.

    • 01/26/2023 / 4:13 pm

      Absolutely; couldn’t agree with you more, Heather! Thank you so much for reading and for sharing your divine vibration. xo

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